https://attunedparentcoach.com

Location

Venice, Florida, USA

Languages

English, Dutch

Coaching SpecialtieS INCLUDE:

About This coach

When I first became a mother, my mother and grandmother whom lived abroad, came over to meet my newborn son. They had all kinds of judgements for me as a new mom, how I didn't do this right, how I didn't do that right and how it should be done instead. I felt as if I should follow their "more knowledgeable" advice and a sense of not feeling good enough washed over me.

However I followed my own inclinations which was to attune to my child's cues instead. Of which they shamed me for. Something then shifted in me. That which followed was 10 years of a lot of soul-searching, into my own life and especially my childhood, which intensified with each additional child being born. I came to understand the patterns/beliefs that have been passed down by my maternal side.

This has offered me great clarity on how they were passed down and still present in me and how it has affected the relationship I had with my mother which was a very difficult one. How they are passed down at the subconscious level, which is more often than not fear-based, and how they still affect our day to day lives, especially in parenting and how prominent they still are in our modern world. Even though we may bravely say we won't be like our parents once our first child is born, the subconscious patterns/beliefs are in the driver's seat and until you become conscious of them, and choose to make decisions and take actions at the conscious level, they will stay in the driver's seat.

That is were I consciously decided to stop these patterns of being passed down to my own children and also support other parents to do the same for their children and become a parent coach through the Jai Institute for Parenting.

Through diving deeper into somatic integrative therapy, child development, neuro- and attachment-science, mindfulness and meditation, I can support and guide parents towards understanding and coming to peace with their own past, boldly face their fears, learn more about their children's development so behaviors will be better understood and then find the ability to make new conscious choices that support both parent and child in finding a more balanced and harmonious connection and therefore relationship.

Having this understanding and awareness has already greatly supported the connection with my self, my children and has been very helpful in the connection between my 7 year old neurodivergent daughter and me.

What Makes THEM Special?

I have done trainings and/or hold certificates/certifications in: Beyond Behaviors® by Mona Delahooke, mindfulness & mindfulness coaching, spiritual coaching, meditation, EFT tapping, somatic integrative therapy, soul realignment® and the Akashic Records. I am also near completion of a Yoga teacher training. 

The knowledge and experience gained from these trainings are in my Parent Coaching Toolbox.

I also offer Akashic Records readings, which are like an archive of the Soul located in the spiritual realms, that supports the uncovering of deep seated blocks and restrictions and challenges in life that may be rooted at the family or origin, ancestral lineage or at times from past lives. They don't support us in moving forward, and by bringing awareness to them from the Akashic "Soul" perspective, this also offers the opportunity to change these patterns and move forward with less self-doubt, more self-love and greater empowerment, which can be of great support on the parenting journey.

Ready to start parenting with peace and connection?